A lot of statistics have revealed that most guys don’t actually
display their real status when it comes to social networks and dating sites. It’s
not that surprising to see a guy putting up a dating profile
when he already
has a woman at home. Why do seemingly faithful men, who say they love their wives
choose to be on dating sites? These are questions which needs to be redressed.
If a guy who claims he is in a relationship on a site like that, it means one
of three things:
Firstly, the guy is a cheater who is trying to entertain
himself by sleeping with other girls on dating side. He wants to feel sexually
desired by somebody other than you and wants to be objectified for his rippling
abs. He wants to look at photos of a$$es
and chests of "real people." He wants to flirt and have the thrill of
the chase again. And yeah, there are guys who really are 100% committed to
their relationships who create profiles on sites like this in the dead of the
night. (The funny part about that, of course, is that men outnumber women on
these "fling" sites by a factor of at least 100 to 1. I'm not saying
women don't cheat - they do - but most women find the idea of just hooking up
based on an online profile kind of hilariously distasteful.
Secondly, he's feeling the pressure of moving towards
getting "truly committed" in the not too distant future and is using
a site like this to find out if he could actually do "better" than
you if he were single. (By the way, women do this kind of thing too.) Basically,
before he puts all his eggs in your womanly basket he wants to know if you're
the "best" he could do.
And thirdly, he wants to feel wanted. Most straight men
simply never feel truly sexually desired by women. It’s a trick of human
psychology that men are way more visual than women are and most guys get depressingly
used to the idea that turning a woman on is a lot of work. We all know for the
fact that men crave sexual variety. They can whine and moan and complain about
it but the truth is that the man’s mind has a really hard time staying sexually
attracted to and focused on just one person for any significant length of time.
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