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Saturday 19 November 2016

My father wanted me to be the head of the ‘most baddest boys’ -Femi Kuti


Femi, the son of afrobeat pioneer Fela Kuti explained how his father was impressed with his bad behaviors and wanted him to become an ''area boy’, he said this in an interview with Thenetng. "I was
more of an experimental guinea pig to prove a point that you do not need education to be successful. He said:

He wanted to use me to prove to his brothers that the education he got was not what made him. I really vehemently protested against it, but when I became successful and I complained again, my father said ‘are you famous? Are you not successful? Oya shut up."

But I was still very angry because I’m more of a street boy. I may speak well, it’s because I read a lot of books and I’m very well informed but my father wanted me to be more like an area boy.

Back then if I got back from school and said I got ZERO in Mathematics, he’ll say that’s very good. I used to be among the bad boys in school that’ll jump the fence to go and watch movies at the cinema and if we get caught and my father hears about it, he’ll say ‘very good’. 

My father wanted me to be the head of the ‘most baddest boys’ in school (laughs). If I did well in my science subjects, he was very unimpressed but if I did bad things, he’ll be like ‘that’s my boy’.
And in the long run you could say he proved and made his point because I became successful. My mum, his brothers were all so scared that I’ll be a complete failure. 

Nigeria wrote me off, you can’t imagine how big my father was in those days and then his first son (me) had no education, smoking igbo, doing all the bad things everyone else was running from. I was totally written off. 

Back then If a girl introduces me to her parents they’ll be the end of the relationship, even my marriage broke up because of such stigmas of being Fela’s son. So if you look at it well, I’m not supposed to be successful, I should not have been nominated for a Grammy, I shouldn’t have won KORA Awards, these things are not important to me, but those that know my history know the significance because I was a failure."

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